Whatever people think of the war in Afghanistan there is little doubt that they support the troops and their families. A friend of ours is in the army and spent time in Afghanistan five years ago. He is now based in England and sent this round robin with his family's Christmas card. I reprint it word for word without permission and hope that he won't mind.
"Reflecting on the events of 2009 after a good day's shooting, it is easy to see the highs and to be self-indulgent and over-look the lows. Genuinely, there is much to celebrate and to be thankful for and one cannot grumble about one's lot - especially as friends and colleagues continue to risk life and limb fighting the Queen's enemies in Afghanistan and Iraq. The other day, I nipped out of the office in uniform to fill the car with fuel and, having paid, was returning to my car when I noticed a particularly unsavoury version of "white-van-man" in the queue waiting for me to vacate the pump. As I was about to set off, he rapped loudly on the driver's window. In trepidation, I wound it down and the man seemed to lunge at me, thrusting his hand into the car. Initially alarmed, I then noticed that, rather than threatening me, he was in fact trying to hand me a five pound note. I knew that it could not be mine and started to protest, but before I could go on, he explained that he was incredibly proud of "the job our Boys were doing out there", wished me to take his offering and to put it in a Forces' charity box. Embarassed at my initial (incorrect) preconceptions about him and my initial reaction, I was incredibly touched by this spontaneous gesture of support and solidarity from an anonymous member of the public. I have never before experienced such a thing, and it brought home the genuine, grass-roots support that we in the Army currently enjoy. There is such high expectation out there of us, our people are doing such an extraordinary job, and I hope that we can continue to deliver.
Incidentally, in case you are wondering I have since topped up his gensture and have made my donation to BLESMA."